Orders of Protection: What They Are and When They’re Useful
By Lana Carter
Photo by Katrin Bolovtsova
For many of us women who face threats, harassment, or even abuse, an order of protection can be an invaluable source of safety. Despite this, many people hesitate to seek one out. You may be worried if the situation is “bad enough” or fearing judgement from others. I want to make it very clear that there is no shame in taking the steps needed to prioritize your safety, or admitting that you’re afraid. Fear is your intuition alerting you to danger, and asking for help is an act of strength.
Many women hesitate because they are worried about what will happen next, and how their abuser might react to police involvement. Rest assured, you’re not alone in this. If your abuser retaliates or escalates their behavior after an order of protection is issued, call the police immediately. Law enforcement takes violations seriously, and your abuser can be arrested and face criminal charges. A judge can issue additional restrictions to prevent them from contacting you, coming near your home or workplace, or harassing you through others.
In this blog post, I’ll talk about what an order of protection is and how it can help keep you safe.
What Is an Order of Protection?
Sometimes referred to as a restraining order, an order of protection is a court order that requires the abuser to stay away from a victim, their home, their work, or other places the victim regularly visits. It’s meant to provide a legal barrier between the victim and their abuser.
In Illinois, including Chicago, orders of protection are often sought in cases of domestic violence, stalking, sexual assault, or harassment. However, they can also be useful in situations involving threats from former partners, family members, or even acquaintances who have shown harmful behavior. The specifics of an order of protection vary by state, but they generally prohibit contact in person, by phone, through social media, or even through a third party. Here is a comparison chart for the different types of orders and what they protect. Violating an order of protection is a serious offense and is usually a misdemeanor at the first violation, and a felony for the second.
When Is an Order of Protection Useful?
Many women are hesitant to seek out an order of protection because they’re unsure if their situation really “qualifies.” There can be some concerns about ruining someone else’s life or causing a rift between family members. If this is a decision you’re weighing, I want to encourage you that if you’re feeling unsafe, that is reason enough to consider one.
Here are a few examples of situations where an order of protection may be the right step:
Threats of harm – If someone has threatened you with violence, even if they haven’t acted on it yet, an order of protection can help prevent escalation.
Physical abuse – Any form of physical violence, whether it’s hitting, shoving, or strangulation, is a serious red flag.
Stalking or harassment – If someone is following you, showing up uninvited, or repeatedly contacting you despite being asked to stop, an order of protection can legally enforce boundaries.
Sexual violence – Survivors of sexual assault or coercion can seek an order of protection to prevent their attacker from approaching them.
Digital abuse – In today's world, abuse isn't always physical. If someone is harassing you online, sending threatening messages, or spreading harmful information, an order of protection can address these violations.
If you’re feeling unsure at all, TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS. If you feel nervous every time you check your phone, or get the urge to look over your shoulder, it’s worth taking the legal steps just to regain your sense of safety.
How to Get an Order of Protection in Illinois
In Illinois, orders of protection can be requested through the court system, often at your local courthouse. Many domestic violence shelters, legal aid organizations, and courthouses have advocates who can help with this process.
&Rise also puts on workshops to help you through the process. Check out our events page to see what’s coming up.
Here’s what the process will probably look like:
File a Petition – You will need to fill out forms detailing why you need protection. The Illinois Supreme Court website has a full breakdown of everything you need from paperwork to case information.
Temporary Emergency Order – In many cases, the court can issue an emergency order of protection the same day you file, without the abuser being present.
Hearing for a Final Order – A judge will set a date for a hearing, usually within a couple of weeks. The abuser will be given a chance to respond, and you will need to provide evidence or testimony about why the order should remain in place. You do not need to hire a lawyer to file or attend the hearing. However, if you wish to have legal assistance you can start by reaching out to Legal Aid Attorneys by calling (312) 341-1070 or the Cook County Legal Advocates at (708) 689-3422.
Enforcement – Once granted, the order of protection is legally binding. If the abuser violates it, you can call the police, and they may face legal consequences.
What If You’re Scared to File?
Fear is normal, especially if you’ve been made to feel like you’re overreacting or that no one will believe you. But your safety is worth fighting for. You don’t have to go through this alone. Organizations like the Illinois Domestic Violence Hotline (877-863-6338) and Chicago’s Family Rescue can offer support, guidance, and even legal assistance. Lean on the community you have around you and if one is not available, the &Rise family is here to lift you up as well.
Also, remember that seeking protection does not make you weak. Many women worry about what others will think or how their abuser will react. But staying silent to avoid conflict often puts you in more danger. Taking steps now can prevent worse situations later.
Signs You’re Making the Right Decision
It can be hard to realize that you’re in an abusive situation, and even harder to admit it out loud. But at the end of the day, your safety and peace of mind are worth protecting.
If any of these apply to you, it’s a sign that an order of protection could help create the space you need to breathe, and eventually, heal:
You feel anxious or afraid when you see the abuser’s name pop up on your phone.
You’ve started changing your routine to avoid them.
Friends or family have expressed concern for your safety.
The person has ignored your requests to leave you alone.
You find yourself making excuses for their behavior or downplaying your fear.
Your safety and peace of mind are worth protecting. If any of these apply to you, it’s a strong sign that an order of protection could help create the space you need to breathe, heal, and move forward.
No Shame, No Guilt—Just Safety and Support
There is no shame in protecting yourself. No one deserves to live in fear, and no one has the right to make you feel unsafe in your own life. Whether you need an order of protection or simply want to explore your options, know that there are people and resources ready to help you take the next step.
If you or someone you love is considering an order of protection, reach out for support. Your safety, well-being, and future are worth fighting for. Erin Wilson is a family lawyer who can help with orders of protection, divorces, child custody and more. Take a look at our Resources page for other types of assistance.